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Friday, 6 November 2015

Loneliness and Depression




Psalm 102:7 I lie awake; I am like a lonely sparrow on the housetop.

Loneliness is a curse from the fall of man, God never intended for man to be lonely. Often times we think if we just had someone to be with or spend time with we won't be lonely but that's a misconception because loneliness is not the absence of a man or women in our lives but rather the absence of the presence of God in one's soul. Repent! We all need to repent daily whether because of our actions, thoughts or our disobedience. Psalm 91:14-16 “Because he holds fast to me in love, I will deliver him; I will protect him, because he knows my name. When he calls to me, I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble; I will rescue him and honour him. With long life I will satisfy him and show him my salvation.”  


Depression comes when we focus on our problems and not The Lord that’s the answer to all mankind's problems. God said in Isaiah 40 verse 10: Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Depression is a slippery slop that the devil uses to pull you down further and further into the pits of hell be careful. Repent and ask the Lord Jesus to come into your life and deliver you from loneliness (Matthew 11:28-29: Come to me, all who labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.).



Be grateful for all the Lord has done for you. God loved you enough to send His only begotten son to come and die on the cross for your sin and that was enough, so start thanking God for everything he has ever done for you and if you are sincerely thankful, I guarantee that by the time you are finished thanking him your soul will feel lighter and your heart will be lifted and you will rejoice.


Sometimes we get lost and forget to rely on his strength and love. We must give up all of our selves to connect to the love and salvation that his open hands are reaching for us. Let go and let God take control of your life and casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you. God is the Father of the fatherless and protector of widows is God in his holy habitation. God settles the solitary in a home; he leads out the prisoners to prosperity, but the rebellious dwell in a parched land. Psalm 145:18— the Lord is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth.
I pray that heavenly Father shall see us through this life; that's we are just passing through in Jesus name. 

Have a wonderful weekend!  Love you xx

Friday, 23 October 2015

Who sat and watched my infant head:My Mother




As I sat on my bed on the 23/10/2015 at 03: 05, here in Lincoln United Kingdom, I was thinking of writing something down on my notebook as usual. Then, the classic poem I used to recite in my primary school days came to my mind. The poem by Ann Taylor “My Mother”, I don’t really like to discuss or say too much about my mother because I don’t even know her. This year will mark 34 years after my Mom has passed away.

Three decade ago, I would sit at the front of our rented house in Africa, Nigeria all by myself late in the night staring at the moon looking for a sign, just to see my mother face not admiring the vibrant colour in the sky, but simply hand writing emotional notes – lengthy and tear-Jerking – to God.
As a child in primary school, it felt like therapy as I poetically poured my heart into my tiny piece of book. I lost my mother at 1 year and eight month old. Being without her has been difficult—I think I miss the idea of mother nurture and long to have known my own.

My late mother Fefe (Not her real name) Saliu was a business woman from Ebira land in Kogi state, Nigeria. My mother weave clothes, make clothes, sell clothe and sell anything, she even worked as a project manager on some of her friends construction sites in Kogi state at a time when women rarely walked the job sites. Ironically, I listened to my sister story about my mother and pursued Business Management at Hull University and later did some courses in Project Management. But I always wondered: If my Mother had lived longer, if we could have had the much-needed conversation about my career, and if Mom could have shared about her past business knowledge then perhaps I, too, could have become a great entrepreneur by now.

I don’t have a picture of my mother to keep as a token because after her death storm washed away all our property which includes various family pictures and I have tried to see if any member of my mother’s family have her picture but nobody has it. I don’t know why I am writing this particular story, maybe there is someone out there that need to read my story to gather strength for tomorrow. Or maybe I am just writing on behalf of everyone who has lost their mother.

My life has never been the same since I realise that my Auntie is not my biological Mother at age 4. No Mother to cheer me on during my graduations and no Mother to come home to. So, to all those women (and men) who can no longer celebrate their achievement with their Mom, I feel your pain, your tears and major loss... I know I am not the woman I would have been...resilient? Godly? Independent? More scared of loss? Less trusting? Loving? I know this is how it is and I feel jealous of my nieces, nephews and friends for all that they have that I missed. Glad I am not alone in thinking this...big hugs to all of you! One day we will see them again!

I know there are no words to express the deep, profound grief that one experiences with the loss of a mother. It’s unbearable. Even though I don’t know my mother I can tell you there are moments of despair and sleepless nights (Maybe one of them is today). There are times when I will ask God to just take me home because I miss my Mom …… You know sometimes I get jealous when I see my friends talking about their mother and feel pain when my friends mother mistreated me.

From my own experience, I have come to realize that when someone loses her mother at tender age, their childhood could be shattered if their father was not strong enough to be there for them. It doesn’t matter if that person is an adult or a child; they are still left with this empty place once filled by the love of their mother. A mother’s love is treasurable, for they love with everything they got. Mother unconditional love says I love you no matter what. Unfortunately, I don’t have any memory of my mother’s love toward me except the story my family told.

For those who feel low like me sometimes, please keep this scripture in mind. John 14:1-4 says, “Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. You know the way to the place where I am going.”

I thought of my mother with love today because she did not give up on me while I was still in her womb. My mother went against all doctors’ report and she did die in the end. I thought about my mother every day, I think of her in silence, I often use her name to do so many things because that all I have, her name is my memento with which I 'll never part. I know God is looking after my mother; she is not dead, just sleeping. Even though I have never seen, feel or met my mother I have her in my heart.

Since I was a little girl, my views and images of death have been greatly influenced by the death of both parent, my brother and my uncle and his son. All these people were in my life and they have been a gateway to that side of life. I can remember all of these images and so much more, but perhaps my latest change occurred when I was thirty four and visiting Kent, UK for the first time. As I was sitting on the bed in my niece's room, I received a text message about my beloved friend passing on to glory. As I heard about this news I begin to remember and picture in my head all the good things we have done together, how she helped me not to backslide.The images that I have about my friend are something that I will never forget. My friend is a beautiful woman, she love God and serve people.

I pray and hope that next year Mother's Day can be exceptionally special for me and my family member. As I jotted in my notebook about my Mom, I happen to be listening to Free-flow Worship With God's Wisdom— Pastor Joseph Prince-EL007 [23] God Is Gentleness-Goodness-Faith. I am not sad at all, simply multitasking, I am happy because I believe God has a perfect plans and purposes for me.

I thank all the women who have believed in me... and for giving me the strength to be joyful in my world of business, innovative each day - just like Mom!

At my most faithful—when God finally calls me to glory—I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all of creation can separate us from the love of God (Romans 8:38-39).

Nor will tuberculosis and cancer‘s disease.
See you in the sweet by and by, Iya Ejire, my lovely mother.

My Mother Poem
Who fed me from her gentle breast,
And hushed me in her arms to rest,
And on my cheek sweet kisses prest?
My Mother.
When sleep forsook my open eye,
Who was it sung sweet hushaby,
And rocked me that I should not cry?
My Mother.
Who sat and watched my infant head,
When sleeping on my cradle bed,
And tears of sweet affection shed?
My Mother.
When pain and sickness made me cry,
Who gazed upon my heavy eye,
And wept for fear that I should die?
My Mother

I love you mummy, sleep well in Christ Jesus.

What does the rest of 2015 hold in store for us?



The answers to this question is well written in the Bible. Find out with daily, weekly, monthly, and yearly reading by meditating on the word of God in the bible.

I know some people believe in Horoscope but I believe in the Word of God because the Word of God is active and it never fails.

It is only through the reading of the bible that we can see that 2015has being a year of welfare and not for evil. Count your blessing or watch the Daily News, then you will see how blessed or fortunate you are.  

I believe that when we daily seek God in the remaining 69 days left in 2015, all those things (money, job, good health, husband, wife, child, house and prosperity) will be added on to us. However, let us be careful because the heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.

Do not boost in yourself and say, today or tomorrow I will travel to this town or that country and spend ............... yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. Instead you ought to say, If the Lord wills, I will live and do this or that.

Simply put your trust in the Lord because our systems is failing, wait on God as I am waiting on Him and I believe He shall renew your strength; we shall mount up with wings like eagles; we shall run and not be weary; we shall walk and not faint.
In Jesus name Amen!
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Tuesday, 3 February 2015

Love your neighbour:Whose feet are U washing today?

Love your neighbour as you love yourself (Mark 12:31)

But we always ignore this first part of the verse and work hard to accomplish the” loving ourselves part “am not trying to attack anyone, just stating the facts. How many of us really know the people that live around us? It does not matter whether you live in a posh area, shared apartment, and town or in the village. Christian or no Christian, how many of us take the time to say Hi? Hello?  Or ask their neighbour how they are? Some people will claim they are conservative that is why they mind their own business. 

Friends we live in a selfish fast paced world where everything is about us-what do I want? Where do I want to live? How much money do I want to earn? How many kids do I want to have? What’s in it for me! I am sorry to say this-we have become too busy pursuing happiness and making money and getting Qualification’s after qualification’s but forget how to live life to the fullest!

Some people go to work in their posh cars with tinted windows, close themselves in their glass windowed office, ride back home in the evening to enjoy the comfort of our houses without as much as a hello to the gateman that opens your gate every morning, or a smile to the checkout assistance who scan and bag your goods when you went to the supermarket on your way home from work.

Some of us are so busy with life that we have no time for our own families, we are just “chasing the pounds “as my friends would call it. We go from one promotion to the next trying to beat everyone climbing the corporate ladder, but for what? So that you can seem better than other people? You want to be richer than the rest of your friend or family?

Oh, I don't live this kind of lifestyle, ok, I hear you, but even in that small flat of yours how many times have you passed your neighbour or neighbours kids without as much as a smile on their way, do you even know their names ?? Yet you call them neighbour… when I started living on my own, all I want was a room to call my own, so I work hard and get it and its exciting and beautiful, but after sometime I wanted something more because I just don't want to share toilet with anyone, I just want to live comfortable, so I started wishing for two bedroomed that I don't really need. I always told God that if he would give me a bigger place I would make it a place where people could come and feel at home and sheltered and cared for. God gave me my wish but I failed to keep this promises and God took it away from me to teach me lesson on (Giver 109) stuffs that will make me to see many good days. Friends the reason why we don't get much is because we don’t give much.

I see depressed people everyday chasing dreams getting frustrated with God. They pray, fast and calling the name of the Lord yet the answer He gave them 10 years ago is still there waiting to be acted upon, giving of your time, of your money, of your possessions, of yourself….next time before you pray and ask God how comes your life is messed up, serve other people and see the difference it makes in your life when you humble yourself by giving people your love, support and your time. The thing is; we live in a society where it’s more easier and acceptable to receive than to give.

I read a story about somebody who is getting married, but the partner did not know that the other person he/she is marrying is HIV positive; the dreadful part of it was that; there is someone close to both couple who knew one of them is HIV positive but she is not ready to tell because she feels it’s not her place to do so? One thing I know is that when two are joined together no one should separate but this two are not joined together yet, however, we find this kind /types of cases around us all the time and we decides to keep our mouths shut, not to interfere, we always claims its not in our places to tell or afraid of being the bad person…..please tell me when did we start handing over death sentences to people? When did we lose our moral responsibilities, when did we stop caring? When did we begin to give up on the human race forgetting that we are actually giving up on ourselves?? It’s always about me, yet your neighbour is about to faces death as you watch, yet their kids engage in sex and alcohol as you watch, yet life slips away from them as you watch….

This piece is especially for the ladies who live on their own…..too busy working, too busy with the ups and downs of life competing with so and so, to acquire this and that, I've asked myself this question- if I was living alone and I was to die in my sleep today who will find me first? People from work will call of course, my sister might think something is up but she wouldn't rush to my place first because she lives in Africa and I live in Europe,……my neighbour would go on with their lives until they discover that something is not smelling right……people let us not be selfish with our time, our money, our possessions….don't live life on the fast lane to acquire earthly goods that have no heavenly use, let’s not forget the greatest commandment of all, whether you are Christian, Muslim, Buddhist, atheist or catholic….Love your neighbour as you love yourself. The greatest example we see of service and love is when Jesus washed the feet of his disciples…..so whose feet are you washing today??



Sunday, 1 February 2015

Dear February

 

With God by my side I take a step of faith into the unknown, a new month, a new canvas and a new exploits. I know I am a vessel to be used in this month, so as I enter into February with Grace, Favour and Mercy, I pray for strength, courage and obedience to keep the commands of the Lord in Jesus name. Amen!

So here are 20 things to know about me as we begin this new journey.

#1. If I were a time of day, I'd be evening; between 9pm-12 midnight I have a thing about late night calls, saying i love you and good night to those who melt my heart (like my sister)
#2. If I were a day of the week, I'd be Sunday eagerly waiting for the church second service and to catch up with friends in the evening at cells group, then later top it with a movie marathon on YouTube till the wee hours of Monday morning, it always sad to say goodbye to Sunday. 
#3. If I were a month, I'd be February because I was born in February; I always feel love, something new and fresh in this month and it so unique out of all the 12 month in the year because month has 28 days in common years or 29 days in leap years. I am blessed and I know it.
#4. If I was a piece of furniture I would be a bed, I love my sleep, reading my bible and some interesting books  in the comfort of my big bed, knowing that that’s my space… spend most of my time there, dreaming, praying, chatting,  writing, planning and crying.
#5. If I were a direction I'd be south - western, if you live in Lagos then the lagoons and creeks are to die for, so relaxing, refreshing. I love my country.
#6. If I were a tree, I’d be two trees timber and aloe Vera. Timber does not grow with ease, the stronger the wind, the stronger the tree.  Aloe Vera is also called the miracle plant which can survive for years through stormy weather…the story of my life.
#7. If I were a musical instrument, I'd be the saxophone, for that’s how I would love to be loved and handled.
#8. If I were a kind of weather, I'd be the sunny weather after the rains; the cloud clears; the sun brightens the day which is a sign of hope.
#9. If I were a Colour, I'd be red, orange  and yellow always lighting up the room with my smile, giving hope to those in a storm that one day it will all be in the past, forgotten, forgiven, a clean slate, a new love, something new and flourishing.
#10. If I were an emotion I'd be compassion. It’s something beyond my control.
#11. If I were a sound, I’d be the sound of the bongo because I love to dance rumba.
#12. If I were a flower, I'd be a rose so delicate and protective with its thorns, I believe such is a love of a man to a woman. A rose is low in price and yet so rare to receive, I want my rose today not on my birthday or Valentine’s Day.
#13. If I were a fruit, I'd be a pineapple, Satsuma and strawberry.
#14. If I were a place, I'd be Paris, its rich culture, friendly people and quality cheese and food to die for !
#15. If I were a room in a house, I’d be the bathroom/toilet. It’s the only place I can run from the world and no one would follow me. In the bathroom, I do have my own quiet moment; I sing new song to my heavenly Lord especially when I am having my bath, I laugh at situation and talk to my heart. 
#16. If I were a scent, I'd be the smell of the earth when the raindrops hit the ground…its beautiful.
#17. If I were a body part, I’d be the heart, for through my heart I seek my God, feel all things and touches all things.
#18. If I were a song, I'd be Oceans (Where Feet May Fail) -It is a reminder to continue trusting THE LORD no matter what may come in life and we can always know that HE is watching over us.
#19. If I were a pair of shoes, I'd be gorgeous 4 inches stilettoes to show off my beautiful and wonderful made cat walking legs.
#20. If I were a story, I’d be a story of Love; For God so loved the world that he gave His only begotten son that whosoever believeth in Him would not perish but have eternal life.

Happy New Month to all my blog readers. xx

Alaba Saliu 

Saturday, 31 January 2015

Unethical behaviour:When was the last time you cheated?

Probably you let your eyes wander during an exam or you copied a friend’s course work without his/her knowledge. It could be that you rounded up numbers on an expenditure report. You may have used a cunning or cleverness to get an advantage over your little ones because they can't defend themselves. 



Stripping away these probabilities, millions of people all over the world are guilty of this unethical behaviour at one point or another in their life time. Some people may have felt great or justify themselves because they think as long as they did not hurt anyone is ok to cheat. Those who cheated generally felt excited, self-righteousness and a sense of superiority after their deed.

Is cheating a good moral norm or socially accepted? Why did people pang of conscience for not listening to their inner moral authority, “should” voice? Had people deceived themselves, justifying or underestimating cheating? Should they be feeling good because they were not caught? 

Take it or leave it there's quite a bit of cheating these days among younger generation. ... And often these efforts start at Universities because some students works at night to survive and they might not be able/find it easy to achieves a good grade….. at the risk of been caught cheating.  Some student cheated a lot by faking it, some even pay expert to do their course work for them.

For example, during my University days most of us have to work in a team, to solve problem on subjects such as accounting, business law, and business strategies with someone who was just pretending to be a team member. The fake team member would report the outcomes but no actual team member complained. And again, they felt just fine about it.

The fact that people feel satisfied after cheating is distressing, because there is impassioned reinforcement of the behaviour, meaning they could be more likely to do it again and again......

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Friday, 30 January 2015

You Came To My Rescue (Your love came down)


Glory to God in the highest for His love endures for ever (Psalm 107:1) I thank God for giving me the understanding and the ability to grasp this song that was sang by Christy Nockels.

I'm forever grateful to God for His love over my life. I join the Psalmist to sing, I love the Lord, for he heard my voice; he heard my cry for mercy. Because he turned his ear to me, I will call on him as long as I live….(116:1).”

If It hadn't been for His love and mercy, what would have become of me? If you and I can think deeply of what He has done, stilling doing and many more that shall be done-we all will exalt Him deeply (Phil 4:6).

Verse 1
Freedom is a song I sing, I can't contain the joy You bring, 
All because of Your great love, Now I live
I was dead, but now I breathe, Awaken to Your grace so free, 
In the power of Your cross, Now I live

Pre-Chorus
Salvation, my freedom, You gave Your all for me, 
Forever You made a way for me

Chorus
And You came to my rescue, You came to my rescue Calling on Your name,
Calling on Your name, Love came down, You came to my rescue, You came to my rescue, Calling on Your name, Calling on Your name, Love came down, Your love came down, Your love came down, Your love came down

 Verse 2
 You're the light in the darkest night, You lead me through the storm and fire
 When all around my hope gives way, You're my rock
 You taught me how to sing Your song, You've overwhelmed me with Your love
 You set my feet to dancing now,You're my God

Do you ever feel like nobody likes you or really cares



                     


Do you ever feel like nobody likes you? I feel that way sometimes, too. I think it's natural to want people to like you. I mean, who doesn't want friends? But I struggle with wanting everyone to like me. And when they don't, it's easy for me to feel bad about myself.

When I was in primary school, primary six to be precise, I used to have this big group of friends, and in that group, there's one boy who hangs out mostly with the girls. Now I was raised with sisters, and I usually feel more comfortable hanging around with girls than with boys. And most of the time, girls feel comfortable hanging out with me, too. So I was starting to feel kind of hurt that the girls were hanging out with this guy and not with me because I kind of think, I am brilliant, nice, cool and fun to be with.

One day, it really started to bother me. I crawled in my bed and just started crying. I was like, "What's wrong with me? Why doesn't everyone want to be around me? Am I just not good enough? Am I just not likable?" I came up with all these reasons why people wouldn't want to hang out with me as much as I want. For instance, I have a strong personality, and I can be very passionate. I'm also very open, and I'll say what's on my mind. That's not always the best thing. Openness is good, but sometimes I'd be better off keeping my mouth shut. I figured if I changed my personality, people might like me better.

The day after my crying session, I decided I would try to be sweet and quiet—to be the girl everyone would love. But that just wasn't me.  Something is not right, And I thought, this is nonsense. It finally came to me that this whole thing wasn't about me. People want to be with who they want to be with and I can’t force people to be with me all the time. Those girlfriends of mine weren't choosing to not be around me. They didn't hate me. They were just hanging out with another person. That's the way life works and that’s the way it goes.

I guess what I've learned is that not everyone is going to love me. Not everyone is going to want to be around me all the time. It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with me. And it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with them. People are just different. Sure there are things about me that I need to work on. But I don't have to try to be everyone's best friend. I only need to be the person God made me to be.

If you are someone like me, all I can say is, please stop beating and condemning yourself, God created you and love you just the way you are. However, if you are too open and abrupt just like me, you might need to bridle your tongue at times. See what the word of God says in the book of first Timothy 2:9-15-  Likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness—with good works……… 

Yes, self-control is the key. I only need to be the person God has made me to be by controlling myself (mouth, thought and action) through the help of the Holy-spirit. Yes, myself because in Christ I live, move and have my being. My life should be Christ like.

May God help us all and have a nice day!


AMS:Check Your HEART!!!


                                       
 Last year December, I was asking God for  instruction and direction on a particular situation and the question I asked God was – God what must I do for you to change this situation that stand as a stumbling block in my life? The answer was, your heart must be fixed on me.  Jeremiah 29:13 to 14 says that: You will seek me and find me, when you seek me with all your heart. 14 I will be found by you, declares the Lord, and I will restore your fortunes and gather you from all the nations and all the places where I have driven you, declares the Lord, and I will bring you back to the place from which I sent you into exile.



At the beginning of January 2014, I was discussing some stuff with one of my family friend and I asked her to pray with me. And she said check your heart! I was really angry and I though why will she say something like that to me, after all I only ask her to pray with me. Or did she think I've backslide? I took it too personal, for days I was pondering on those three words (Check your heart) and again and again the word started echoing in my ears. Just of resent I begin to understand the message she was trying to pass across to me.

In Mark 7:21-23: Jesus pointed out the fallen condition of our hearts “From within, out of men’s hearts, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery, greed, malice, deceit, lewdness, envy, slander, arrogance and folly. All these evils come from inside and make a man unclean.”

You see, I may not understand my own hearts, but God does. He “knows the secrets of the heart” (Psalm 44:21). Jesus “knew all men, and had no need that anyone should testify of man, for He knew what was in man” (John 2:24-25). Based on His knowledge of the heart, God can judge righteously: “I, the LORD, search the heart, I test the mind, Even to give every man according to his ways, According to the fruit of his doings” (Jeremiah 17:10).

Our heart is the core of our being, and the Bible sets high importance on keeping our hearts pure: “Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life” (Proverbs 4:23).


The woman with the issue of blood had her heart fixed on Jesus and the fountain of blood coming out of her body for years dried up during an encounter with God. She didn't mind the filthy smell that was oozing out of her, in the midst of multitude that were following Jesus-all she wanted was her healing (Mark 5:25-29). Until our heart is right with Him, we will keep attracting garbage.

In the book of Mark 10:46-52. I can hear the blind Bartimaeus said, “If I don’t get the attention of Jesus today, I may not have the opportunity again.” So he screamed, “Jesus, the son of David, have mercy on me.” On seeing his heart (Bartimaeus), Jesus stood still to change his story. When He sees your heart beat for Him, He’ll stand to reverse your case. Jesus said to him, “your faith has made you well.”

The morale of the whole story is that the heart is the spiritual part of us where our emotions and desires dwell. This simply means wherever your treasure is, there the desires of your heart will also be.


May God help us by His grace to prepare our heart and to set our face like a flint, to study to show ourselves approved to God in 2015.  Amen! 

Stay blessed!
             

AMS:Does the woman always has to pay the price???


It hurts me so bad. to see our Nigerian female singer dressing repulsive, naked and behaving badly. Modest dressing brings beauty and class and I believe that when a lady expose her body unnecessarily, it is neither class nor trend; rather, it is as a result of a low self-esteem. 

Some Nigerian female celebrity thinks people will notice them and sell more album when they expose their body cheaply. Total misconception!!

Well, we all knew Nigeria’s are so good in learning borrowed cultures. Culture is the savoury reputation of every nation; must we throw away our culture for overseas cultures?

I notice that female singers who has no other talent than singing and dancing are the one who dress half naked or fully naked on stage while rotating their hips provocatively like a whore  and opening their inner compartments for the whole wide world to see.  

Nigerian female should emulate Emelie Sande, Adele, Asa, Oyenka  Onwenu, Rebecca Ferguson, Mary Mary, Lara George and Nneka. Now these are all talents and they are making it big. Money, money, money! 

If the pictures here are appropriate then the world has no meaning. Can we ever see wrong and say its wrong

The sex you're selling its not yours…..it’s God’s gift.


The body you have………it’s also not yours. It’s Gods.

The time and energy you have……….guess who gave you? God

The breath of life that you're making nonsense with…….guess who it returns to? God


Sex is from God believe it or not …….not from worshipping the devil or believing his lies. Godly people can do all sorts and more in the privacy of their bedroom without offending those who are not married or in relationships. I just can't get my head around this naked ambition notice me altitude of Nigerian celebrity nowadays.

Why are you ladies taking God’s gift and using it to taunt and disrespect Him? He gives the breath of life, He gives health, He gives wealth. There’s no good thing in worshipping the devil……..at the end you all shall believe but I pray it will never be too late.

Pretending like their conscience doesn’t speak to them...... God is watching..... 

Thursday, 22 January 2015

AMS: Happy New Year to all my blog readers

When life gives you 100 reasons to be Worry and Cry in 2015, show life that you have 1000 reasons to be Grateful and Smile. 

Handle 2015 with Confidence and Faith. 

Keep the Faith and drop the Fear.
Happy New Year to all my blog readers!